bipolar husband wants divorce
Bipolar 50-year-old husband cheated on her high school sweetheart!?
Husband bipolar diagnosed 8 years after cheating with his old girlfriend, we went through counseling, relationship seemed fine, but I learned that he had been to see her again, divorced in January-is living in a motel, refusing to stay alive, working in low-paying jobs, go to our teenage son occasionally calls every night, as if just came out, wants to come home and have our family back. I miss the life I had, but I'm getting good results on my own, our son misses him too. I had been caring for my husband financially since his diagnosis, when he resigned his professional work and employment began to jump. Reading this, I think would be very stupid to take him back, but life is quiet without him.
Barbara, although there is still a place in your heart for this man, who has done through the emotional ringer – with no change in sight. Let's look at reality. He is still in a relationship with the girlfriend of the "old". He is self-indulgent to find stable employment. He has not paid much attention to his son. And every night calls to complain about their lives and pray for you to take him back. Que pena … It takes an adult, a man, someone who can easily have a reciprocal love relationship. Her ex is a selfish, whiny and helpless. He needs you as a child needs Mom! His decision to divorce him, though difficult, was healthier. Tell him that night phone calls asking to stop. NOW. Stop being a nurse, his mother, and her sympathetic ear. Delete messages from your phone unanswered. I know sometimes you feel lonely, but that of need of man will not fill that void. Its continued attention we will postpone the creation of a life full of love and healthy activities. Think of your child, he should not have to see the ruins of his father dance and know that this is normal, he feels. I wish you well and you are lovable.
