bipolar mother in law

How do you deal with a family member with borderline personality disorder?
My mother has a limit, bipolar disorder and depression. It was only admitted to an institution after a suicide attempt. I want to be supportive to my husband. However, their hate I love you traits are difficult to me. Any suggestions?
Get the book Stop Walking on eggshells. Lee, Memorize, understand. Have your husband read it well. One of the things the book teaches is to set limits. Also remember when it comes to BP, which is dealing with a person stuck in the mentality of a child, and that's how you have to relate to them. If you need any help, support or questions, please send an email to me, and do what I can to help you and your husband. My email is davelennv@yahoo.com
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