bipolar rapid cycle
Friend with Rapid Cycle Bipolar?
My best friend who i love to pieces has bipolar…i feel like im losing her cause we constantly argue. I HATE it, she only found out she had it a few weeks ago, although it was suspected before.
I just really need some advice on what to do. I ask her nice, simple questions, or sometimes just nothing and she really hurts me with things she says. I know I cant really do it back cause she cant help it but i need advice on how to keep myself from getting put down, and how to help her, and what to say in situations.
I just seem to always say the wrong things, do the wrong things, and im trying so so hard.
How do I help her? She is my best friend and I cant lose her, I hate seeing her like it, and knowing she is going though it. i just want to take it away from her.
I lay at night crying thinking its me who has made her like it.
someone PLEASE help me and advise me on what to do, im not giving up on her
thank u in advance x
It doesn’t matter what you say or what you do, bipolar sufferers who are hypo-manic will get extremely irritated and lash out on anything you say.
I’m sorry that you are getting the brunt end of things, it must be really hard for you. I sometimes don’t know how my best friend puts up with me when I’m manic. But don’t take any comments personally. During periods of high energy, she will often say and do things that she would not usually say or do, including focusing on negative aspects of others. So not argue or debate with her during a manic episode and avoid intense conversation.
You need to educate yourself about bipolar disorder. Learn everything you can about the symptoms and treatment options. The more you know about bipolar disorder, the better equipped you’ll be to help your best friend and keep things in perspective.
Just let your friend know that you’re there if she needs a sympathetic ear, encouragement, or assistance with treatment. Remind her that you care and that you’ll do whatever you can to help.
Most of all, BE PAITENT!!! Getting better takes time, even when a person is committed to treatment. Don’t expect a quick recovery or a permanent cure. Be patient with the pace of recovery and prepare for setbacks and challenges.
Managing bipolar disorder is a lifelong process.
Medication is needed for bipolar disorder, and most people need it to regulate their moods and avoid relapse. Despite the need for medication, many people with bipolar disorder stop taking it. Some quit because they’re feeling better, others because of side effects, and still others because they enjoy the symptoms of mania. People who don’t think they have a problem are particularly likely to stop taking medication. You need to encourage her to take medication and get therapy.
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