bipolar social skills
Help! problems among friends?
Well … I have serious problems getting along with my brothers. One thing to keep in mind is that I am autistic disorder bipolar making it even harder to understand than normal. L1-has ADHD. Constantly throws tantrums, anywhere. Punching and kicking. Destroys things. (7 year-old identical twin) is going to repeat 1st grade. L2-generally pretty good, but will follow L1. (7 year old identical twin) is going to repeat 1st grade. K-The eldest brother, 12. It is embaressed by me, and has much better social skills than me. Keep A-K, is 9. Embaressed for me also. So someone please give me suggestions! I want my brothers that I like!
You are obviously very intelligent person … That in itself makes you a different person … Like most people fear the unknown and to them, you are … different! and simply do not know sometimes, how to relate … I've been there … I do not know what your age, but have to assume that you are older than they are … you sound like you're safe anyway … so if you can start slowly, with things small … to just show them you really can be an asset in their lives quietly help out when you see them in any kind of difficulty, without blowing his own horn, so to speak, just being there for them … and ignoring its observations clock until they realize for themselves that what they think of you not the end all be all of who you really are … there are things that should welcome information about you although they are different, and the more they recognize actually can contribute to life in general, coming to have a relationship with you personally could become a very wonderful … You must be patient and if there is a Bible at all, you would greatly benefit from see for yourself what the real meaning of love is and you will find in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, ie the first book of Corinthians, chapter XIII and verses 4-7 … When we understand that kind of love "agape" which is the kind of love that Jesus had for mankind, God himself seems to return everything we do in the name of it … That is the best way I know you can over-come any problems that may have time in that department … In reading Proverbs, also in the Bible, you will acquire the kind of knowledge that, once implemented, bearing wisdom of the true God, and although the voice that you said that no one here can help your situation, keep one thing in mind which is written in black on white only book that claims divine inspiration, which is that even if men (or mankind) anything is possible! "With God all things are possible … In other words, with him, in his corner, and with you having faith in him, the size of the smallest of the seeds in the ground, you will be able to eliminate the problems of life that seems as big as the mountains … to be as small as a pebble that you can simply kick out of the way … or just keep walking because you do not mind for nothing …. The next thing that helps more than you think is the power of prayer and the only way to do it in a nice way to true God, who hates such as prayers, parrot or idols of any kind, but insists that is venerated in spirtit and truth! … is to address their prayers (his heart) to Him, the Father in heaven, the Creator, while at the same time, whatever you ask, ask in the name of his beloved son, our King, Jesus Christ … and all good things you ask in the name of your child, you have "the word of Jesus to carry out some things … it takes time, as he likes to think and pray about the right thing is not always clear to us … For example, we can be praying for a fish … as he would expect to pray to learn to fish … so that we can be fed forever instead of for one meal … and when we arrived and pray about how to learn to fish, perhaps inspire us to go somewhere where we could find someone with a spare rod, which would be more than happy to teach … I'm sure you understand! That's probably why it is written: "Pray without ceasing" that is the shortest scripture in the book … and "Go to ask and you shall receive" and "Keep on Knocking" and "Search for it as for fine gold" (speaking knowledge of the Almighty) … In closing, I leave you with a snapshot tip to help achieve the goal you have set for yourself about how you would like his brothers to come true to appreciate and respect even someone like you and me, in your lives that could have "respect" for them despite whatever can do or say. You may not like what they do, but still must respect them (as brothers and sisters …) and as human beings and try not to attack their dignity and self-esteem as "different" little people who are … Remember that the kind of love that is about to learn, conquers all things … and that kind of love that never fails … So, beware! and above all, remember that you love yourself … since it is impossible to love others without due first … for ourselves … When we think about it is pretty easy to guess what others would also certainly have a difficult time for us to love if we felt same or even see ourselves worthy!, right? God's law says that we will all reap what we sow, and that the law of the universe works more or less the same way and which says: "What goes around comes around!" for the good you do with them, you will become one day somehow … if only be patient, long-suffering and kind …
Comedy Courage 2009
