divorcing bipolar spouse

divorcing bipolar spouse
Under what circumstances is adultery forgiven?

And under what circumstances would you resort to adultery yourself to satisfy your basic physiological needs of being loved which is not met?
Example:
When a spouse becomes a homosexual?
When a spouse has never been able to perform sexually for the past two decades of marriage?
When a spouse has bipolar disorder and refuses to seek treatment?
When a spouse become emotionally abusive?
When a spouse has periodic outburst and break things in the house?
When the kids are still young and divorce may be detrimental to their growing up with only one parent?
When… ?

Homosexual=divorce, so no cheating required.
Unable to perform=probably divorce.
Bipolar and refuses treatment=divorce.
Emotionally abusive=maybe, I don’t know.
Temper tantrums=maybe, I don’t know.
Young kids=maybe, I don’t know.

I would hope that I would speak up, and figure out how to deal with the situation openly, productively, and in a way that is sustainable, but I’m just being honest. Those are tough circumstances.

And, adultry is forgiven when the person who was betrayed decides to do so. I feel like people who have a solid history of being loving, honest, respectful, and kind should be forgiven, but it’s up to each couple, and whether or not they have anything to salvage, I suppose.

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