group homes for bipolar adults
How can I overcome the shame of losing your virginity?
Last year, just after turning 18 years old, I decided to lose my virginity. I knew a guy who liked me and we talked for hours on the phone for about two days. He said he lived with his uncle and aunt and was 28 years and / o. Anyway, I realized there was something really off, but I chose to ignore it and we had sex. Then, shortly after they had sexual confessed that lived in a group home and was bipolar. I came to discover who took heavy medication for this and it was an adult with mental retardation very functional. I was surprised and decided not to pursue anything sexual with him, but I remained friendly with him until he stopped taking his medication and became a nightmare. I feel like an idiot that even a year later. How can I overcome the guilt and shame of losing my virginity and for being so damn stupid?
You have to forgive yourself and stop beating yourself. One thing about life that is full of errors that can not be avoided. Just learn from them. Remember everything happens for a reason, good or bad. The only person who will help you overcome the guilt is Jesus. Do not try to get all spiritual, but it really works. Other mistakes will happen and eventually overcome this. Good luck.
Dear Sir or Madam, could you please tell me the cost of staying in a group home. I am Manic Depressive diagnosed 30 years ago. Thank You for your information, Best Wishes, Bill