jealousy bipolar
Was it a good decision for no contact?
I have been out of a friends with benefits relationship for 3 months now and I feel like I am just starting to get over it and think it was a good decision. I am 24 she is 35 with 3 kids. She also claims to suffer from bipolar disorder but many people at work claim she is attention seeking. With had a friends with benefits relationship for 1 year until she told me she was sleeping with other guys and I got jealous and I had more feelings for her….actually love feelings. I told her this but she said she was in love with a guy who had a girlfriend.
I have been through a period of thinking these past few months, “she was so lovely and kind”. But now I am beginning to see how she hurt me and it was a dangerous situation.
The thing is I feel a bit guilty still for leaving her as I wanted to take care of her and see she was ok and we got on well as friends but feel selfish that I couldn’t put the jealousy on the backburner.
Was it a good choice do you think?
From what you described, I think it was the only choice. And why should you feel guilty? She’s the one sleeping with other guys. Sounds like you fell for a ho. She did you a favor. Get on with your life and never look back.
A Jemi Story Episode 54
