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There are many who insist that a midlife crisis (MLC) is a journey that will take place. It is true that half of life is a journey that must be accepted and celebrated. Any person who survive long enough to experience a midlife transition (MLT). Not all transitions are crises, but all MICS are MLTs. It is my intention to deny the experience of someone else, but I mean a specific type of MLC. Midlife crisis is not a clinically treatable psychiatric disorder or mental illness. This is a normal life event – the transition from middle age – which has escalated to crisis levels of emotional and mental difficulties. Transition midlife is a time of self-questioning, making it a search. This is a change, denial and attempts to avoid the crisis of transition performance. The crisis is not a disease, but disease. The median age is a necessary path toward greater autonomy, spiritual growth and consciousness, is a joy as a person becomes a butterfly.
What is different from a person who embraces the journey of someone who refuses?
- Components key of a midlife crisis
- Depression – overt and covert
- The Urge to flee
- Infidelity
- Blaming or projection (denial of responsibility)
- Personality changes or mood swings
Depression
Self-reflection is a component of middle age, and this can include depression, even those whose transition does not reach crisis levels. The easier a person falls in a depression, most likely not a crisis. Depression pervades Midlife Crisis, which requires reflection which is a confrontation with one of the fears, and for what is this feeling of depression that is trying to escape MLCer.
The urge to leave
Most MLCers move, not all but most. Some will take legal action, but many more are threatened no action or make no mention of the legal changes. The spoken words or promises as a conscious lie can be true unnoticed. MLCers out, often saying it is only temporary, they will be back. Some of these words mean and are not aware that temporary is longer than your imagination, some would say, but lack confidence in themselves and others are using as words of appeasement with honest intentions. Almost all are aware of their emotions fast cycle, and they will change their minds in an hour, day, week or month – possibly several times.
Infidelity
Although this is merely a symptom of the disease, it is often the most painful and public. One issue is a relationship – the MLCer form a bond with the other person. Most midlife issues to be sexual, but there are some who have Internet affairs, emotional affairs or pornography use instead. It is a few people who do not deceive your partner in some way.
Blaming or projections
In order to avoid self-reflection and accountability, blame the spouse MLCer. It is often rewrite history, claiming that the marriage has been falling apart for years. Midlifers accusations: you are bad, you're in denial, which is what you are confused, they are vengeful, often, these are things of MLCer unconsciously feel about itself.
Personality changes or mood swings
Guilt, confusion and fear to the mood swings of performance. You can feel like you are living with a manic depressive – maybe you, but the midlife crisis is as Manic Depression, does not mean that your spouse is clinically diagnosable as bipolar. Some mood changes every few minutes, while others may change during the past weeks. Can manifest itself through anger, behavior reckless or passivity. What is remarkable is that it seems a different person all or some of the time.
K-R is a marriage advocate, she believes that a person can save their marriage even when the partner wants to leave. There are no guarantees, only possibilities.
For information on Midlife Crisis and Infidelity please visit her website at http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com
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